Why do you get angry? — Question from an Introvert !

Don’t shout Think from my place. Do Think from their place !

The one who got defeated must get angry. The one who got beaten must get angry. The one who got betrayed must get angry.

If you are not getting angry, then it would be said as you must have done something wrong in that situation, so with that guilt, you didn’t get angry.

Let me say that again with some examples.

• If the server boy got delayed to deliver the food you ordered, then you have the right to get angry at them.
• If the previous customer care person hadn’t completed your request properly, then you can start to talk to the next customer care person with same anger from the conversation beginning itself.
• If your friend hasn’t returned back the money he borrowed from you, then you can get angry with him.
• You can get angry with your friend who didn’t play well in the game, just because you played well on that day somehow.

Do you really think anger would correct these things ?

Does angriness have any power to change the past actions ? Are you saying that you are just trying to be strict so that others would be afraid of you and won’t betray you again ? Are you saying that you are the only human in the world with common sense and others are only having 5 senses so whenever they make mistakes you would get angry as normal human behavior ? Does God say getting angrier means you are right or you are right ?

I bet you can’t answer any of those questions. So why do you get angry ?

Getting angry never means you are right or you are strong.

Some people used to say that whenever they are right, they get angry automatically at others who did wrong. They simply say they know everything and they are doing right.

Angriness is becoming a fancy thing nowadays. It portraits everything wrong to the next generation. Those who get angry are right and they are strong. In some places, they even consider this as qualification to become a leader. Holy shit. Don’t take this as Im getting angry on those who get angry. Actually I feel pathetic about them.

Anger is not a mature thing. It never means boldness as well.

Angry reveals the lackness of maturity, inexperience and confidence as well.

Don’t take it as an inspiration when someone scolds others and becomes a high volume in a place.

Then you may ask what should I do ? What should I do when someone makes mistakes that affects me ? or when someone betrays me ?

What is the alternative way really ?

Actually you can feel pathetic about them. You can’t change the past. You can’t change others. They are not children anymore. You can’t give them advice and let them change. You have to understand their situation.

Don’t say think from my place. Do think from their place.

Anger doesn’t change anything. Maybe it can increase hatreds.

Maybe you have heard this a lot. But still I have to repeat those. Spread love. Lot of hatreds is grooming. Everybody gets angry to save their pride.

Some think it as their character which can’t be changed. Change is the only thing that doesn’t change !!

Thanks for reading !! ☺

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